Example: The evening is winding down. It's pretty obvious that you aren't going to "get lucky" this night for any love, sex, or romance, but you hang on 'till the bitter end hoping that the chance in a million shot will come through.

Wrong!

Instead you alertly perceive that the evening is still going well and is positive, so you politely explain that you have to go, assure her that you had a great time, and tell him/her you'll have to get together again sometime. If you are a guy, take her home and say, "Good night."

Most men seem to think that if they prolong the date enough, they'll get the girl in bed for a hot night of passion, sex, and romance. As the evening drags on, the mood of the date starts to drop and the girl ends up having to announce it's time for her to go.

By ending the date before she does, you surprise her and set yourself apart from the other guys she's dated. You imply that you are hard-to-get and not desperate. And believe me, if the girl is interested in going to bed with you, you'll know it. She will make her interest known to you.

So, if she hasn't given you the signals, better for you to make your exit and beat her at her own game. She'll be giving you the signals someday soon.

Related: Spending Time Together